Loneliness

Have you ever felt lonely before?
If you say no, you are so lucky. But I think, most people have been isolated at sometime in the past, so have I. I wouldn’t like to feel lonely, but when loneliness comes to me, I have to face it, because I don’t have enough ability to change it. Maybe you will say, “You have a lot of friends and look very happy, how could you feel lonely?”
No matter whether you have friends, it is possible for you to feel lonely. There are many reasons. One is that you have some things which you can’t tell your friends, so nobody can understand you completely, at this time, the feeling of loneliness which buried deeply in your heart breaks out. Another reason is atmosphere. When I was alone in the midnight, especially in the rainy night, I just keep silent, hearing the voice of the rain and the wind. In this atmosphere, I would think about something sad, I would feel lonely just like I have been left in the darkness alone and can’t find the way to escape. So atmosphere is one of the reasons for loneliness. But the atmosphere is just a reason which has a little effect on the emotion, the most important reason may be the outlook on life. If you have a positive outlook on life, feeling lonely can be infrequent, otherwise you will feel lonely usually.
There are still many reasons to get the feeling of loneliness, which is harmful to us. Let’s do our best to defect the reason and be happy every day. Even though it might be difficult for somebody, we have to do it, because we cannot always live with the feeling of loneliness. To be comfortable in our daily life and we can receive a lot.