Recently, some of my old friends asked me if I had already got one “special friend” or whether I went steady with a right blonde, and of course my answer was and is “Not yet, no vigor for that.” On another hand, I don’t think any ordinary people prefer his beloved partner staying away, generally. I’m simply going without energy shared to company the girlfriend, because I wouldn’t get enough time to develop friendship and camaraderie in case I decided chasing someone really attractive to me. Since friends and knowledge act essential parts in life abroad, I take the view that we’d better place high priority on it.
Before I came here, I once wrote a remembering letter to a girl whom we never had chance to put our hearts and souls into being together despite we had favorable impressions on one another without having exchanged a word of explanation even in nowadays. However, we all have dreams to pursue; we all have an unknown but promising future. We have to stay away. But there are some areas in which we can lay the foundation for happiness. There is nothing better than we treasured the warm feeling of love inside the heart.
Although, I never have a clear idea about who will be my better half, I have my thoughts on the qualities that my future spouse should have. These are not excessive requirements. I also know many qualities that women would look for such as dependability, humor and the heart to be big of her. I still try my best to perfect myself with them.
In my view, four characteristics are essential for a marriage partner. Compatibility is very important because spending the rest of your life with someone is a huge commitment, and without compatibility in values and interests, and goals, it could be a struggle rather than a partnership. Likewise, without acceptance and affection for us as a pair, I could risk the relationships I have with my family members. I also think that my ideal marriage partner should be a pretty lady with whom I always feel comfort and appreciation. One must simply surrender to a beauty and she never fail to attract me. There is a saying: Beauty is Danger, thus following my forth characteristic I hope with my girlfriend---fidelity, in another word, honesty. The expression of love will be limited to my partner. Definitely, if I married with a deceitful woman, it goes without saying that we would lead a inharmonic life as we plot against each other because we never had trust.
Of course, it must be noted that these criteria may change with time as I mature with the myriad of experiences that is sure to come my way. In time to come, I am sure a more complete picture of my ideal love will emerge.
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As a man, i totally agree with your ideas. You analyze it from many different aspects and it really comes just like what you say. Special friend, we should treat this thing in a different way, as it is so important for us to find a real special friend. I think, as time go on, we will have a better knowledge about this thing.
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