Currently in the midst of the sex-role revolution going on, girls and boys change a lot in many segments. I did a search among the youth. I asked several girls and boys who are in China, Singapore and Sweden about what is the topic you like most to talk over with your same sex friends.
I found a big similarity that courtship is the most commonplace topic for both girls and boys. They are more inclined to talk over the opposite sex. There is no denying that it is realistic and normal for the youth in puberty. They will admire and have a good feeling to the gorgeous hunk and babe. But according to my research, the opinions on this topic differ from girls and boys.
Most of the girls are a little shy. They won’t express their inner feelings of their own accord. They prefer to play some jokes or do something to imply the boys. What’s more, maidens are more innocent. They frequently have visions of owning a romantic experience of love. In contrast, boys are more active in love. Most of them are daring to say out their love for her even though they may be refused. From my personal opinion, this distinction is caused by how they are treated when they were young.
Generally speaking, girls are more vulnerable and feminine. Parent will care more about them even spoiling them. They are trained to be feminine. Boys are physically strong. Parents are always strict with them. They are expected to be masculine, magnanimous and outgoing. Shyness is not an expected characteristic trait of a boy.
Frankly speaking, the differences between men and women do exist. I totally agree that there should not be discrimination because females and males have their own unique abilities. These two characters complement each other. I think the world will be colourful like this.
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Indeed, boys and girls are different in character. Their unique personality makes life colorful.
ReplyDeleteAs we all should understand, we cannot discriminate others just because tehy differ from us! Things are distinguishing in nature.
ReplyDeleteIt's just common. But if I fell in love with someone, I would express(haha ~). Unfortunately, I have met no one who is worth pursuing.
ReplyDeleteShake hands with Elain!lolz.
ReplyDeleteI am suffering the same situation.
Whenever approaching an okay boy with huge anticipation, the final result is only to find one more "oh, he is not my type."
What a pity that we are not given a chance to say those three sweet words! haha~~
So I'm afraid I don't agree with you, George.
In our generation, girls are becoming far more active and braver. They pursue what they dying for and press forward without a fear of failure.
On the contrary, boys turn to be more sensitive instead. A few are too shy to say love. What's more, quite a lot are even inclined to protect their dignity by pretending they don't like...
In brief, we see gender roles revolution does bring changes.Heiheihei:P
Thus, here comes my personal view.
"Currently in the midst of the sex-role revolution going on, girls and boys change a lot in many segments."
This is your first sentence.
I supposed next you're going to talk about the changes. But later I found that the body seems all about the remaining stereotypes in nowaday youth's mindset instead of a comparison between past and now.
But it's just my advice. I hope we can help each other.:)